Pray for the publication of Blue Book V.

February 26, 2006 message continues

Messenger:    Many today make fun of our Blessed Lady and the
                    pope.

                        Here we have Don Bosco's vision — a ship sailing
                    on the seas of life, firmly rooted on its way to
                    heaven. The pope, the Eucharist, the Virgin
                    Mary — all in the work of perfecting the
                    pilgrim Church and leading Christians to the
                    greatest voyage to eternal life. Mary the
                    Spiritual Mother, Mother of the Universe, of the
                    World; Jesus is the Incarnate Son of God —
                    Jesus is God on this earth today, truly present.

                        There is evil that exists in the world today —
                    deeply rooted in the hearts of people —
                    Christ calls it "an evil seed."

                        Look at the garden — Eve and the Apple —
                    the evil seed —

                        Christ is the New Adam — Christ comes
                    and gives us Himself truly present in the
                    Eucharist.

                        A person dealing with evil being enacted
                    in their family wants it flushed out, but it
                    seems that a person acting in evil just may
                    choose to keep giving in, as their faulty reasoning
                    justifies their adverse actions — more and more
                    and more — they give into the temptations of satan —
                    others who believe in doing evil, who plant
                    the evil seed lead them astray and they have
                    a free will to stop it, but because of pride,
                    jealousy, envy then give in and in and
                    in.

                        A person having the empty-nest syndrome
                    can cause havoc in so many ways to try to
                    alleviate their pain or act out their pain.

                        When people sin they hurt others, telling
                    themselves they are perfect and continuing
                    committing sin, continues their own black
                    road of injustice and will never lead them
                    to freedom.

                        There is the problem with co-dependents.
                    People may make others dependent on
                    them for their own selfish games
                    of pride and control.

                        Parents can hold onto their adult children, hurting
                    the adult children's marriage, interfere with healthy upbringing
                    of the grandchildren, parents have interfered with
                    many a young man's vocation to priesthood or
                    a woman being a sister because of their
                    own expectations of grandchildren etc.

                        It is part of the life cycle that parents
                    grow old and children have their own lives.
                    The umbilical chord, must be cut in order to
                    let the person (child) serve God according to
                    God's will.

                        When a parent is too controlling — they can
                    meddle in the lives of an adult until their
                    own death. Some grandparents are so dysfunctional
                    themselves and so controlling they interfere with
                    the marriage to get custody of their grandchildren.

                        You sit there and say "Oh how could anyone
                    do that?"

                        Control, parental control, can be a real issue —
                    mom or dad doesn't really live out their own
                    life — they have had dysfunctional relationships
                    with children and have never cut the umbilical
                    chord —

                        A mother and dad changes diapers and must be
                    attentive for every need of a baby but the
                    whole process of raising children is to let
                    them go and to be independent in the world,
                    being married or living a religious or single
                    vocation.

                        Dysfunction is a real issue in relationships.
                    In today's world it is really wrong when an adult
                    parent holds onto an adult normal child keeping them
                    from growing in their own vocation.

                        The empty-nest syndrome is real — people
                    who live their lives controlling children will
                    in some cases do anything — even try to commit
                    them to insanity to not lose their hold on
                    the child.

                        Alcoholic partners can become enablers.
                    Say a man is an alcoholic, a wife can make the
                    situation far worse being an enabler, living
                    her life worrying about, what he is doing and
                    his unpredictable behavior controls her life,
                    because she lets it and she lets it control
                    the lives of the children. There is freedom
                    from this sick alcoholic syndrome many
                    have been in, but dysfunctional families
                    whether alcohol, sex, controlling behavior
                    all have a similarity —

                    Children are majorly involved and taught sick
                        things from dysfunctional homes they
                        have to sort out later or live a life
                        of so much pain — that eventually when
                        the pain is bad enough in their
                        own life — they may do something
                        to get out of the dysfunctional
                        syndrome.

Jesus speaks:    I watch the messes and I cry bloody tears —
                        other people who turn children into babies
                        for their own needs of needing to be needed themselves.

                           Letting go is a process, when a mother dies
                        it rocks someone's heart — do they go out and
                        grab a hostage in holding their adult child in
                        their clutches ever tighter.

                           Rebellious people come from homes
                        many times that were held tight by tight
                        strings. One may exert astringent rules —
                        sleeping at 10:00 while another stays up
                        all night because of past strict behavior
                        and now rebellion.

                           I give you the natural law — The body
                        ages — people who were once 25 and
                        beautiful become older at 48 - 55 - 60

                        It is God's will the body dies —
                        Do you want to go against that natural law —
                        If you are so irritated you try to hold onto
                           your fountain of youth at 60 like
                           you had at 25 — you are living a lie —
                           when you are 60 you are 60
                           when you can't have any more children,
                           your children may be adults — you
                           do not hold onto them to keep things
                           the way they were.

                        You are envious if you look around and are
                           jealous of those with grandchildren
                           when you do not have them — love the
                           other's grandchildren — see the beauty
                           of God's creation — you can look and
                           love that child, but in your selfishness
                           and anger — you can get jealous, envious,
                           mean and decide to act this out, out
                           of envy.

                           Some families are just envious and jealous
                       and that is the dance they do — talking, criticizing
                       the others, being jealous and like an alcoholic
                       family because of the co-dependence,
                       if one wants to follow what is God's
                       will for them — getting out of that unhealthy
                       setting, they may hurt the person (the one leaving) more
                       and more by isolating them and talking
                       about them.

                           In an alcoholic home, the sick
                       family wants the Christmas celebration
                       and the hero wants to be the hero at the
                       gathering and let the scapegoat be the scapegoat.
                       When the scapegoat gets wise and wants to
                       get out of that dysfunctional dance — the
                       sick alcoholic family may do all they
                       can to keep the person doing their sick dance —
                       they don't want them doing a healthy
                           dance.

                           When one comes and criticizes someone's
                       vocation, married life and they are a
                       parent, one must ask why are they
                       meddling and why doesn't the old
                       parent live their own life.

                           Co-dependents are like this — they
                       never look at themselves, but fix
                       everybody else. It is tremendous
                       pain — if one wants to survive in
                       this, they have to get out of it usually
                       at some point. In alcoholic homes —
                       the guy who is alcoholic is leading
                       a way in a disease than can cause
                       physical death.

                           I suffered for this dysfunction.
                       People who are dysfunctional will do
                       anything usually to keep it going — rather
                       than change — they try to make
                       what is familiar to them the rule.

                           You cannot work out the evils that
                       exist in the world.

                           I died for your sins —

                           Your prayers, your life given to
                       help souls, going to Mass, doing the
                       morning offering will help release
                       the grace that can help the change
                       now and forever.

                           Only My grace will change
                       things — you must cooperate with
                       the plan of the Father to have a
                       place on earth where My Sacred Heart
                       will Reign and the heart of My Mother
                       will triumph —

                       Satan is running rampant and
                           you are letting him.

Jesus speaks:  I am truly present.

Jesus speaks:  This is My Movement to help
                           renew the Church and the world.

                        Denial to your imperfections
                           keeps you stuck.

Jesus speaks:  The devil tells you to think you are
                           right —
                       Dysfunction goes on and on
                       Not accepting the facts — old age
                       keeps you stuck —
                       enjoy your old age —
                           you are My bride and
                           Mary's child at 80.

                       There are so many broken homes.

                       Think of the relationships that could
                           be holy if people worked in love.

                       How hard is the betrayal of one who is
                           unfaithful after years of marriage
                           or another who has two or three
                           young children and the mother
                           or father gets a mistress and
                           then a divorce when the other
                           finds out.

                       Babies growing up without their
                           real dad, or being "shipped" from
                           mom to dad on Christmas, vacations,
                           birthdays.

                       A wrenched heart —

                           but you must learn to forgive or
                           it will destroy you or you
                           act it out in other controlling
                           ways that block My will —

                       You cannot harbor hatred in your heart,
                           jealousy, envy, you must always
                           think of the greater good and do
                           the right thing in love for the
                           honor and glory of God —

                       You hold onto hatred and hurt others —
                           let go of that and think of the
                           children the people involved
                           don't have the "eye for an eye
                           tooth for a tooth attitude."

                       Do what is best for all —
                       let go of envy, hurt that leads
                           you in ways to hurt others —

                       When you were 3 your mom let
                           your diaper give you a diaper
                           rash and you still remember it
                           at age 79 and never forgave your
                           mom "the nerve of her!!!"

                       You can take the monkeys off your
                           back by forgiving then you
                           won't have to put those monkeys
                           you got from your hatred on
                           others and undo the good you could
                           do —

                       You can forgive and

                       You can quit controlling and

                       You can enjoy your vocation and love —

                       You can trust some people who
                           are over you trying to really
                           do God's will —

                       Then when the devil comes you don't
                           have to give into your jealousy
                           and envy and pride because
                           satan works in that and making
                           people tired.

                       Did you give yourself a rule about
                           eating that is keeping your energy
                           so low and your joy down so you
                           follow your self-made commandment
                           that blocks My work —

                       The devil likes your rigidity and rules
                           that help you act the way he
                           wants because of a bad
                           chemical balance, low blood
                           sugar in you.

                       The brain runs on sugar.

                       Oh you give into satan and have so much
                           to learn —

                           your new pair of shoes are
                           these messages and Blue Books —
                           read them because I am
                           really telling you —
                           you don't really believe and
                           listen —

                       What you do with the prayer services
                           at 6:20 in Florida can help
                           the world, but you never really
                           tell the people with enthusiasm
                           and so nobody comes.

                       The Mother of God appeared there
                           for 7 1/2 years and when the other
                           guys went home it was not
                           what I asked you to do there
                           as an apostle, a servant, a
                           handmaid —

                           get busy

                       Sell My Blue Books

                       Souls are at Stake

                       Tell people to pray —

                       Quit blocking My 5ths

                       What do you think will change
                           the world?

                       I have told you about the 5ths,
                           but month after month you
                           don't listen —

                       Should you ignore the image
                           of Mary too — or give into
                           lethargy and not tell the people —

                       Should I not beg you —

                           It is My building —

                           I beg you to listen to Me.